What Would Rheumatoid Awareness Mean Mean to Me?

I’m participating in the #RheumBlogCarnival started by the RA Warrior – Kelly.

Rheumatoid Awareness Day, February 2nd, is a day of recognition of the reality that Rheumatoid Disease (RD) is a progressive inflammatory disease in need of greater research and improved treatments. RD causes damage to joint and organ tissues, resulting in severe pain, frequent disability, and increased mortality. Rheumatoid Awareness Day helps combat the misconception that Rheumatoid Disease is a form of arthritis. While joint inflammation is a prominent symptom of this disease for most patients, it’s a disservice to refer to RD as merely a type of arthritis. Patients in our community have often experienced systemic effects of the disease that confirm what research tells us. So…  – from RA Warrior

  • It would mean that my former employer would have been more sympathetic to my illness by accommodating me instead of adding stress, which also exacerbated my illness.
  • It would mean that I wouldn’t feel guilty for calling in sick because I have a chronic illness that fluctuates from day to day
  • It would mean I wouldn’t feel lazy for not going to the gym, going the boot camp class, or trying to be super active – just walking the mall can totally kick my ass!
  • It would mean people would understand that getting up and making it to work 5 days a week is a pretty awesome feat and I am a damn good employee despite the fact I’m always in varying levels of pain!
  • It would mean that people would understand that I’ve spent thousands (I’m in Canada with very good benefits) in the last 2 years out of my own pocket for needles and vitamins and drugs to keep me functioning.
  • It would mean that me asking for a stronger painkiller is *not* drug-seeking and that restricting medications because of their addictive qualities leaves people who need them without relief.
  • It would mean that people understood that this is my life from now until remission or until they find a cure.
  • It would mean that my rheumatologist wouldn’t dismiss my cracking neck after my x-ray comes back clear; or that me complaining that my cycle has an effect on my inflammation levels wouldn’t fall on deaf ears.
  • It would mean that more doctors would choose to become rheumatologists – there aren’t enough to satisfy the demand
  • It would mean that people wouldn’t automatically say “oh, I have arthritis in my finger too and I take Tylenol Arthritis”.
  • It would mean that people won’t say: “You’re too young”, “You don’t look sick”, “At least it’s not cancer.” (The last one makes me angry because you can actually become cancer-free. I will never be Rheumatoid disease-free. And yes, cancer is a horrible disease that has affected my life – I’ve lost family and some are now in remission)
  • It would mean my friends and family will understand when I cancel plans repeatedly at the last minute because I just can’t get out of bed, I don’t have the energy, or I am just in pain.
  • It would mean that people would treat Rheumatoid Disease would be treated as seriously as heart disease, cancer, diabetes, etc.
  • It would mean they would stop studying how RD patients are “hypochondriacs” – you can’t always “see” my illness but do not doubt for a minute it’s there.
  • It would mean people would understand that pain, chronic illness, constant discomfort – they change you – even if you try to fight them.
  • It would mean that people wouldn’t shy away when I take pictures of my drugs, my injections, my reality.
  • It would mean that I could speak about my illness without seeming like a drama queen. I’m not fishing for sympathy – I’m looking for understanding.

I could keep going but I think you get the point. Awareness = understanding and progress towards a cure.

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